Hello Lou
I go to curves - ladies gym with no fit in body shape and fit in fitness egos!
Ladies of all ages & sizes NO mirrors!
My ra isn't good but being a mum and at work I just push because I don't want to get fatter! I do it for mobility reasons and strengthen my knee and muscles around it.
My hand grip isn't great great (hands/fingers of an old witch) so I use the fingerless gloves from sports direct which helps for gripping.
I do my best.....while I can because I don't know what is round the corner with my mobility/ra.
Last week I went 4 times because I haven't gone much (curves min commitment is 12 times a month) also I've had some bad news with work so I have to vent my frustration somewhere!
I know ra effects us all differently but I'm determined to carry on as normally as I can X
Good luck Lou with the gym - give it a go x
Jane